Improve DataFusion stability for small `batch_size` values

[comphead]

Describe the bug

Built DataFusion with batch.size = 1 in the config.rs

        pub batch_size: usize, default = 1

And realized there are failed unit and slt tests. Kind of tests which expected to fail:

• explain plans changed
• result differently sorted across rows or across arrays

But there also issues when the test crashes on internal assertions, correctness issues, panics

Some examples

thread 'tokio-runtime-worker' (3580060) panicked at /Users/ovoievodin/.cargo/registry/src/index.crates.io-1949cf8c6b5b557f/arrow-select-58.0.0/src/coalesce/primitive.rs:61:9:
assertion `left == right` failed
  left: 4
 right: 2
note: run with `RUST_BACKTRACE=1` environment variable to display a backtrace
Completed 5 test files in 1 second                                                                                                                                                                         failure in group_by.slt for sql SELECT FIRST_VALUE(x)
FROM FOO;
caused by
External error: task 17 panicked with message "assertion `left == right` failed\n  left: 4\n right: 2"
Error: Execution("1 failures")
error: test failed, to rerun pass `-p datafusion-sqllogictest --test sqllogictests

To Reproduce

just run cargo test

Expected behavior

At least shouldn't crash, I'm not sure how fuzz test it as the explain plans are connected to the batch_size = 8192 but would be nice to check correctness issues or crashes with different batch sizes

Additional context

No response

[mbutrovich]

It's this issue: we'll pick up the fix when we bump Arrow-rs. apache/arrow-rs#9506