In the fs.cp... API, we have options such as errorOnExist and force that are intended to control what happens when the destination already exists. There is, however, a discrepancy in how the options are implemented depending on whether the src/dest are files or directories.

For instance, let's suppose we have the following directory layout:

~/tmp
    | -- ~/tmp/a (file)
    | -- ~/tmp/b (file)
    | -- ~/tmp/c (directory)
    |            | -- /tmp/c/1 (file)
    | -- ~/tmp/d (directory)
                 | -- /tmp/d/2 (file)

Then, in the fs.cp operation, let's first try copying a to b, with options errorOnExist: true and force: false we get the appropriate error indicating that the destination exists and we're not going to overwrite it:

> fs.cp('a', 'b', { errorOnExist: true, force: false }, console.log)
undefined
> SystemError [ERR_FS_CP_EEXIST]: Target already exists: cp returned EEXIST (b already exists) b
    at mayCopyFile (node:internal/fs/cp/cp:250:11)
    at onFile (node:internal/fs/cp/cp:242:10)
    at getStatsForCopy (node:internal/fs/cp/cp:211:12) {
  code: 'ERR_FS_CP_EEXIST',
  info: {
    message: 'b already exists',
    path: 'b',
    syscall: 'cp',
    errno: 17,
    code: 'EEXIST'
  },
  errno: [Getter/Setter: 17],
  syscall: [Getter/Setter: 'cp'],
  path: [Getter/Setter: 'b']
}

However, if we try copying c to d, with options errorOnExist: true and force: false, we happily go ahead and copy contents of 'c' over to 'd', erroring only if one of the individual files in d overlaps with a file in c

> fs.cp('c', 'd', { recursive: true, errorOnExist: true, force: false }, console.log)
undefined
> null undefined

This just feels wrong. d already exists and we're being told not to force. I would expect the behavior to be the same as copying the files. If d exists, this operation should fail.

I don't think we can change this behavior now without it being semver-major and potentially breaking a lot of things but we really ought to have an option of enforcing that no copy is performed if d exists.

@nodejs/fs @anonrig @dario-piotrowicz